Here's a guide for you if you're considering buying an engagement ring and asking that big question that will unite you forever.
Who is the ring for?
First and foremost, you need to consider who the ring is for. I assume it's someone you're madly in love with, and who you believe is the right person to spend the rest of your life with :) But who are they? If they are outgoing and like jewelry that speaks volumes and says "here I am," you can advantageously choose jewelry that takes up space, both in size and design language. Organic designs are often perceived as bolder than classic ones, so this could be a good starting point for your search. If the person is more introverted, you might want to look at their current jewelry, ask their friends what they think would be the best match, and opt for something not too flashy. Most likely, they embody both personality types to a greater or lesser extent, so perhaps I could ask it another way: Do they prefer large or small jewelry? What kind of clothes do they wear? The person should be able to wear the ring in many different situations and through many different phases of their life.
Use your time wisely – I also find it a bit romantic that it's a ring you've sought out and like. It will mean something extra to the recipient that you've made an effort to find a ring that suits them. That way, you're (almost :) guaranteed that the recipient will be just as happy with the ring as you are.
The aesthetic
Next is the aesthetic. There are solitaire rings (with one stone, preferably a diamond, placed centrally on the ring band) either in a classic, classic-organic, or completely organic design, and everything in between. I exclusively use recycled gold, and various diamonds or entirely different stones can be chosen for it, e.g., different colors, sizes, etc. Everything is possible, which is precisely what is equally fantastic and frustrating, as this is where some people become uncertain and find it difficult to choose.
Fear not. The expression to focus on is precisely what suits the person best – in other words, and as above – "who is the ring for?" The aesthetic should preferably fit, to ensure success and the best ring-and-recipient match. I'd be happy to talk with you, without obligation, about the person and review which options would best suit your beloved.
The functional
It's a really good idea, before ordering a ring, to find the ring size (see this guide). There will likely be a diamond (as diamond is the most durable gemstone and has been a huge symbol of love since WWII, read more here) and although I can slightly change the size afterward, it's important that it's relatively close on the first attempt.
Furthermore, it's important to consider whether there are any special considerations regarding what the person works with or does daily. This can affect the choice of design and stone type.
You need to choose a stone, and there are many beautiful ones to choose from; emerald, ruby, paraiba tourmaline, opal, and many more. All with rich cultural histories and symbolism that can do one thing or another.
I recommend that you choose a diamond for a ring in recycled gold, either in 14 carat, which has a cool yellow color, or 18 carat, which is a slightly warmer yellow color, depending on what color gold the person already wears, so it matches the rest of their jewelry.
These materials withstand almost anything and are also aesthetically sustainable.
The emotional
For the person to emotionally connect with the ring, it might be a good idea to do something extra, for example, with an engraving and a personal message.
Here you also have the opportunity to show thoughtfulness in the design by, for example, making space for extra stones that can be continuously set and symbolize years, children, or other significant moments.
The ring will be a symbol of love between you, of being loved, belonging, and it will also show others that a new chapter of life has begun.
The practicalities
If you wish to purchase an engagement ring from Liljefelt Jewellery, you can do the following:
- arrange a non-committal meeting here
- purchase a ring from the current collection
- optionally, help create a unique piece of jewelry
- if time is short, you have the option to borrow a ring from the collection, and after the proposal, you can visit my workshop to get the exact size measured. Afterward, I will create the chosen ring to fit you perfectly
If you have any questions, or if your order is urgent, please call me at 50623600.
Please remember that I make jewelry to order, which means the delivery time is 2-6 weeks for the collection and 8-12 weeks for a unique piece of jewelry.
Sincerely, Michell Liljefelt